Ashley Madison Escort and Marriage Affairs site is ADL Media.  I know because I ...just know.

Dont bother with Ashley Madison, lets use this site instead. sooypatlivedotcodotuk

To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f****d up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

1. set up a paypal account and deposit funds in there.
or
1. get a prepaid debit 'visa check' card.
(tell your spouse it was a gift, if you must --- just don't tell her it was a gift to yourself for good sex.

1a. Earn some extra cash... sell something on ebay, start a side business (easy enough to do w/as many affiliate programs there are.)

2. Put the income onto the check card and EL...Media (looks like ADVERTISING in the sales ledger)

3. You know you're business is working when you get free hookups & it pays for itself.

Make more $$, quit your dayjob.

cheers!

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  

Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.