Way to help the [***]. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid [***]. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

You deserve the house because you clean it?? Lol really??  First off, most of the problems can be found with the wives. Don't kid yourself, I know too well the games you gals play. Find a guy you think is worthy of you, play innocent and make him chase you. All the while still sleeping with your ex. Convince the future victim of undying love. Lol Then you make him misserable by continuously nagging and trying to control him, bleeding the life from him day in and day out. Not to mention all the talk with your friends and family about him being worthless or whatever. Yeah you clean the house because you clean it. Good luck with that. Lol   I've got a nest egg stashed away for when it comes time to go. She can have the house but paying for it is going to be a b***h lol. Guys make loans from your friends, get them notarized. My soon to be ex is responsible for 80,000 of "borrowed" money. Get her to get a prescription for a drug that can be used to treat depression. I'll be living my same life style and she'll trying to pay a 2200 a month house note. See ya!

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

AshelyMadison now accepts PayPal.  If you want to hide this from you spouse just create a PayPal account. Transfer some money and pay electronicaly.  As long as you keep your PayPal account secret no one will know.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

That seems like a lot of work.  Maybe instead of spending all your time on hunting all this down, you should have spent it having sex with your husband, so he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.