Wow, that would suck for the spouse to find "THAT" out....

yeeouch....

Way to help the bastards. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid a**. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

The kids know something is up.  Do they know this in exact detail, of course not, but they know when the fire has died and that the two of you are simply putting up with one another.  It shows, believe me it does.  Kids know more than you give them credit for.

well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f***ed up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

its your neighbors wife, its the bosses sister. Its more common than you think. If there not on there, they are finding lovers thru friends and work.  So many people are having or had affairs. It is very common. but no one is saying so.

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.