To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

I have been on there for several years. had several long term contacts.  Why did I go? Bored in bedroom. Married too young? not enough premarital  experiences? I don't know. I found it hot. I found in intoxicating that other women found me attractive. Would do things my wife wouldn't.  I was able to please them.  One was ready to let me be with her and another woman. unfortunately my wife found out about her. I ended affair. Mistress was spared any fallout.  Is something missing in my marriage. If there is its from my side. I don't want to leave. but I don't want to be limited to one woman. I maybe a [***]. Or scum. Just cant stop.

I believe that ADL Media now owns SexuallySocial, which could mean that your husband is cheating on you.

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

1. set up a paypal account and deposit funds in there.or1. get a prepaid debit 'visa check' card.(tell your spouse it was a gift, if you must --- just don't tell her it was a gift to yourself for good sex.1a. Earn some extra cash... sell something on ebay, start a side business (easy enough to do w/as many affiliate programs there are.)2. Put the income onto the check card and EL...Media (looks like ADVERTISING in the sales ledger)3. You know you're business is working when you get free hookups & it pays for itself.Make more $$, quit your dayjob.cheers!

You deserve the house because you clean it?? Lol really??  First off, most of the problems can be found with the wives. Don't kid yourself, I know too well the games you gals play. Find a guy you think is worthy of you, play innocent and make him chase you. All the while still sleeping with your ex. Convince the future victim of undying love. Lol Then you make him misserable by continuously nagging and trying to control him, bleeding the life from him day in and day out. Not to mention all the talk with your friends and family about him being worthless or whatever. Yeah you clean the house because you clean it. Good luck with that. Lol   I've got a nest egg stashed away for when it comes time to go. She can have the house but paying for it is going to be a b***h lol. Guys make loans from your friends, get them notarized. My soon to be ex is responsible for 80,000 of "borrowed" money. Get her to get a prescription for a drug that can be used to treat depression. I'll be living my same life style and she'll trying to pay a 2200 a month house note. See ya!