Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

That company handles a lot of different online billing.  We downloaded some software and that is the company who processed the payment.

That was a close call. I almost bought credits there.. figured Id google the name they bill under to see if any nosey spouses have discovered it allready.. Thanks for saving me the trouble of digging my way outta that one!!

Back to craigslist cheating for me!!!!!!!!!!!

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

I can use many angry words here to describe how I feel about some other comments that women and wives are to blame for affairs. A marriage works both ways, if a wife is not sleeping with her husband, thats because the husband is not desirable anymore. Yeah, guys when you let yourselves go we tend to tolerate it because of love I suppose but if you think we will tolerate you not acting like a gentleman and open doors for us and romance us, then we are not spreading our legs for your smelly icky nether parts.
This comment is only to "Double Life" being married and having a lot of sex is despicable. If you were my husband I would chop your d*ck off and feed it to you. You are tired of your spouse and don't want to work on it, you leave the relationship. For all you know they probably want the same thing just dont want to be the first to say anything. You men act as if we women actually care if you stay or go, if you want more than leave the keys and get out. Yes we damn well deserve the house, we're the ones who clean it and maintain it.
Side note, no one has ever been happy leaving an honest wife. They have always been dissapointed in the fling they thought was their soul mate, however you do the honest wife a great service when you get yourself out of the picture.

If you guys don't wanna get caught I found that using a pre loaded visa/mastercard or american express card works perfect for me. NO PAPER TRAIL hehehe you don't even have to use your real name when using it just put A gift card for you!!!!