well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f****d up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

hey wifesif ur not looking after him some other women will.i think my wife likes it bc she dont have to put out now.my advise.... start treating ur man the way he likes'stop using sex as a bargin chip.

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

Way to help the bastards. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid a**. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

I can use many angry words here to describe how I feel about some other comments that women and wives are to blame for affairs. A marriage works both ways, if a wife is not sleeping with her husband, thats because the husband is not desirable anymore. Yeah, guys when you let yourselves go we tend to tolerate it because of love I suppose but if you think we will tolerate you not acting like a gentleman and open doors for us and romance us, then we are not spreading our legs for your smelly icky nether parts. This comment is only to "Double Life" being married and having a lot of sex is despicable. If you were my husband I would chop your d*ck off and feed it to you. You are tired of your spouse and don't want to work on it, you leave the relationship. For all you know they probably want the same thing just dont want to be the first to say anything. You men act as if we women actually care if you stay or go, if you want more than leave the keys and get out. Yes we damn well deserve the house, we're the ones who clean it and maintain it. Side note, no one has ever been happy leaving an honest wife. They have always been dissapointed in the fling they thought was their soul mate, however you do the honest wife a great service when you get yourself out of the picture.

If you guys don't wanna get caught I found that using a pre loaded visa/mastercard or american express card works perfect for me. NO PAPER TRAIL hehehe you don't even have to use your real name when using it just put A gift card for you!!!!