Way to help the [***]. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid [***]. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

I can use many angry words here to describe how I feel about some other comments that women and wives are to blame for affairs. A marriage works both ways, if a wife is not sleeping with her husband, thats because the husband is not desirable anymore. Yeah, guys when you let yourselves go we tend to tolerate it because of love I suppose but if you think we will tolerate you not acting like a gentleman and open doors for us and romance us, then we are not spreading our legs for your smelly icky nether parts. This comment is only to "Double Life" being married and having a lot of sex is despicable. If you were my husband I would chop your d*ck off and feed it to you. You are tired of your spouse and don't want to work on it, you leave the relationship. For all you know they probably want the same thing just dont want to be the first to say anything. You men act as if we women actually care if you stay or go, if you want more than leave the keys and get out. Yes we damn well deserve the house, we're the ones who clean it and maintain it. Side note, no one has ever been happy leaving an honest wife. They have always been dissapointed in the fling they thought was their soul mate, however you do the honest wife a great service when you get yourself out of the picture.

Yes, this ADL Media INC is the company that shows up if you buy credits from Ashley Madison, an on-line site for people that are looking to cheat on spouses.  Good luck with that.

So what are you paying for?  I thought the subscription is free???

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

I believe that ADL Media now owns SexuallySocial, which could mean that your husband is cheating on you.