I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

my spouse says that the reason a bride smiles as she walks down the aisle is that she won't have to perform oral or have sex when her husband wants it anymore ( which for me translates to sex about every 2 months and definitely no oral ever ).With this attitude is it any wonder that men seek fulfillment elsewhere.
              Guys / girls who are not fulfilled - i am sure will look at least whether they take the next step or not.There is a kick in looking at these sites - but the factor of men to women would be at least x 10 looking .I have never strayed but i do like looking and dreaming !

                                          All The Best

I actually want more sex from my hubby and he's on Ashley Madison too.  Only been married 2 years.  I'm good with oral.  Some men will never be happy.

Sorry ladies and gentleman.  Sometimes even at her best, she doesn't complete us.  Something is missing.  Maybe it's a "Tiger Woods" sex addiction.  Maybe she's not the right one.  Ashley Madison is a lot better than the neighbor or the one you work with...or your kids bestfriend's mom.  Let it be.  She/he is not leaving you, in fact they are trying to stay.

Ok, here's the deal.  We are well into the information age and if you make a charge/purchase it is trackable and you are going to get caught everytime.  If you want to avoid this you really have 3 options.  Option 1, a favorite of some and the most honest but with many backlashes, divorce... Option 2, Lie, denie, and lie some more, never works...  Option 3, my favorite, open a bank account or credit card account in only your name and keep some $$ in it and go from there.  All banks and cc have the paperless option.  Only a fool would make purchases from a joint account or phone calls from a joint phone line.  Some people just like a lot of sex with different people and also like being married.  Its just the way it is.  If you are that kind of person, do yourself a favor, get a prepaid phone, have $$ that only you know about, and make sure you are being safe.  Pretty tough to explain an STD or love child to your spouse if no one is cheating...

Sorry I banged your wife.  I met her on the site! lol

Honestly, I have met four married women on Ashley Madison.  I have two more contacting me.  There are as many bored housewives as there are men on that site. And one was on wit her hubby's permission and we teamed up and did her together later.

If its not your cup of tea just leave it alone, and be glad that your spouse is happy and getting that itch scratched, but loves you enough not to leave.