That seems like a lot of work.  Maybe instead of spending all your time on hunting all this down, you should have spent it having sex with your husband, so he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.

it is for on line chats about $9 every 30 minutes I think.  Not sure.  The person paying would have to be a Full member (paying a fee) and have a credit card on file for the chat sessions

if a dude said he would chop off his wifes pits he would get shot down so back it up sister, that kinda talk is just sick !!!

What an a** hole!!!

Found on a current American Rxpress bill:09/30/2008  ADL MEDIA (416) 440-3175 DEDIRECT MKTG MISC   149.00 When looking for a clue about this company I found the following info at http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-(416) 440-3175Comments about (416) 440-3175 number:jj - 15 Oct 2008charge on cc says adl media who or what is this has ph. number of (416) 440-3175   MiMi - 6 hours 19 minutes agoThe credit card co. states this charge is from an Escort/Dating company.  I called the number and it is a woman on an answering machine asking you to leave a msg. if you have a question regarding billing.  My guess is that you will never get a call back - unless you are a male that made the charge!  Dirty little secrets...Since I've called no escort service, I suspect this may be an ongoing scam.  Is it appearing on other credit cards also, or does this particular credit card (American Express) have a problem?

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.