any wife who thinks it may be a fraudulent charge or a mistake is a fool.... he's cheating, you better check him!

1. set up a paypal account and deposit funds in there.
or
1. get a prepaid debit 'visa check' card.
(tell your spouse it was a gift, if you must --- just don't tell her it was a gift to yourself for good sex.

1a. Earn some extra cash... sell something on ebay, start a side business (easy enough to do w/as many affiliate programs there are.)

2. Put the income onto the check card and EL...Media (looks like ADVERTISING in the sales ledger)

3. You know you're business is working when you get free hookups & it pays for itself.

Make more $$, quit your dayjob.

cheers!

Hey, you pissed-spouses, suprised your man is going elsewhere? Serves you right.You can't setup a contract for monogamy (marriage) and still use sex a bargaining chip. Here's a quote i like:"My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a [***] in the bedroom.  I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit."  ~Jerry Hall

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing.

Just thought i'd let you all know!

Thanks.

Sorry ladies and gentleman.  Sometimes even at her best, she doesn't complete us.  Something is missing.  Maybe it's a "Tiger Woods" sex addiction.  Maybe she's not the right one.  Ashley Madison is a lot better than the neighbor or the one you work with...or your kids bestfriend's mom.  Let it be.  She/he is not leaving you, in fact they are trying to stay.

That seems like a lot of work.  Maybe instead of spending all your time on hunting all this down, you should have spent it having sex with your husband, so he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.