You deserve the house because you clean it?? Lol really??  First off, most of the problems can be found with the wives. Don't kid yourself, I know too well the games you gals play. Find a guy you think is worthy of you, play innocent and make him chase you. All the while still sleeping with your ex. Convince the future victim of undying love. Lol Then you make him misserable by continuously nagging and trying to control him, bleeding the life from him day in and day out. Not to mention all the talk with your friends and family about him being worthless or whatever. Yeah you clean the house because you clean it. Good luck with that. Lol   I've got a nest egg stashed away for when it comes time to go. She can have the house but paying for it is going to be a b***h lol. Guys make loans from your friends, get them notarized. My soon to be ex is responsible for 80,000 of "borrowed" money. Get her to get a prescription for a drug that can be used to treat depression. I'll be living my same life style and she'll trying to pay a 2200 a month house note. See ya!

Ok, here's the deal.  We are well into the information age and if you make a charge/purchase it is trackable and you are going to get caught everytime.  If you want to avoid this you really have 3 options.  Option 1, a favorite of some and the most honest but with many backlashes, divorce... Option 2, Lie, denie, and lie some more, never works...  Option 3, my favorite, open a bank account or credit card account in only your name and keep some $$ in it and go from there.  All banks and cc have the paperless option.  Only a fool would make purchases from a joint account or phone calls from a joint phone line.  Some people just like a lot of sex with different people and also like being married.  Its just the way it is.  If you are that kind of person, do yourself a favor, get a prepaid phone, have $$ that only you know about, and make sure you are being safe.  Pretty tough to explain an STD or love child to your spouse if no one is cheating...

AshelyMadison now accepts PayPal.  If you want to hide this from you spouse just create a PayPal account. Transfer some money and pay electronicaly.  As long as you keep your PayPal account secret no one will know.

Hey, you pissed-spouses, suprised your man is going elsewhere? Serves you right.You can't setup a contract for monogamy (marriage) and still use sex a bargaining chip. Here's a quote i like:"My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a w***e in the bedroom.  I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit."  ~Jerry Hall

Sorry I banged your wife.  I met her on the site! lolHonestly, I have met four married women on Ashley Madison.  I have two more contacting me.  There are as many bored housewives as there are men on that site. And one was on wit her hubby's permission and we teamed up and did her together later.If its not your cup of tea just leave it alone, and be glad that your spouse is happy and getting that itch scratched, but loves you enough not to leave.