Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

AshelyMadison now accepts PayPal.  If you want to hide this from you spouse just create a PayPal account. Transfer some money and pay electronicaly.  As long as you keep your PayPal account secret no one will know.

Mine was for a nanny-cam not Ashley Madison... Might want to verify that they're actually on those sites that you're accusing them . Took me a while and a lot of research but found out I wasn't getting cheated on... that way.

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  

Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!