Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

Found on a current American Rxpress bill:

09/30/2008  ADL MEDIA (416) 440-3175 DE
DIRECT MKTG MISC   149.00


When looking for a clue about this company I found the following info at http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-(416) 440-3175

Comments about (416) 440-3175 number:

jj - 15 Oct 2008
charge on cc says adl media who or what is this has ph. number of (416) 440-3175
 
MiMi - 6 hours 19 minutes ago
The credit card co. states this charge is from an Escort/Dating company.  I called the number and it is a woman on an answering machine asking you to leave a msg. if you have a question regarding billing.  My guess is that you will never get a call back - unless you are a male that made the charge!  Dirty little secrets...


Since I've called no escort service, I suspect this may be an ongoing scam.  Is it appearing on other credit cards also, or does this particular credit card (American Express) have a problem?

Found this number on my credit card statement. Who is it?

Yep....just like others say.....ashleymadison.com  site for cheating spouses...as seen on Howard Stern, etc...so wanna get even?....Wink

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D