hey wifesif ur not looking after him some other women will.i think my wife likes it bc she dont have to put out now.my advise.... start treating ur man the way he likes'stop using sex as a bargin chip.

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

I have been on there for several years. had several long term contacts.  Why did I go? Bored in bedroom. Married too young? not enough premarital  experiences? I don't know. I found it hot. I found in intoxicating that other women found me attractive. Would do things my wife wouldn't.  I was able to please them.  One was ready to let me be with her and another woman. unfortunately my wife found out about her. I ended affair. Mistress was spared any fallout.  Is something missing in my marriage. If there is its from my side. I don't want to leave. but I don't want to be limited to one woman. I maybe a [***]. Or scum. Just cant stop.

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing. Just thought i'd let you all know! Thanks.

1. set up a paypal account and deposit funds in there.
or
1. get a prepaid debit 'visa check' card.
(tell your spouse it was a gift, if you must --- just don't tell her it was a gift to yourself for good sex.

1a. Earn some extra cash... sell something on ebay, start a side business (easy enough to do w/as many affiliate programs there are.)

2. Put the income onto the check card and EL...Media (looks like ADVERTISING in the sales ledger)

3. You know you're business is working when you get free hookups & it pays for itself.

Make more $$, quit your dayjob.

cheers!

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D