Hi,

I found two charges for ADL media which is getting linked to the Ashley Madison website.  What would the two charges for $80 be for???  It's a cheating website, not a hooker website right?

Does anyone know what the charges would be for?

Ok, here's the deal.  We are well into the information age and if you make a charge/purchase it is trackable and you are going to get caught everytime.  If you want to avoid this you really have 3 options.  Option 1, a favorite of some and the most honest but with many backlashes, divorce... Option 2, Lie, denie, and lie some more, never works...  Option 3, my favorite, open a bank account or credit card account in only your name and keep some $$ in it and go from there.  All banks and cc have the paperless option.  Only a fool would make purchases from a joint account or phone calls from a joint phone line.  Some people just like a lot of sex with different people and also like being married.  Its just the way it is.  If you are that kind of person, do yourself a favor, get a prepaid phone, have $$ that only you know about, and make sure you are being safe.  Pretty tough to explain an STD or love child to your spouse if no one is cheating...

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!  
Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

$80 for a hooker??  I doubt it..unless he's traveling to Asia or some other 3rd world country?Does that make you feel better..?  That it's probably not a hooker?