I had this charge show up too. I called the "real" ADL media it is not them. This looks like someone posing as ADL.

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL. ?She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!  
Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f****d up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

Actually, just go to the grocery store, but a disposable credit card with just as much as you need on it, use that, throw it out. Need a phone number, get a prepaid phone while you're at it. Who's gonna accuse you for cheating on them at the Safeway??

hello to everyone who reads this post if someone wants to cheat they will do it with or without that web site trust me a trip to Vegas for work for 5 days and i ended in my boss bedroom she is married with 3 kids and she told me all about the things she did before well heck i am single don't really care never getting married i guess and the past 3 years and half allll my se* partners are married women and i mean alll i am 27 works for intel and i am loving it when a husband doesn't give his wife what she needs or a wife doesn't give her man what he needs OF COURSE they gonna look somewhere for sex bunnies anyways just wanna let everyone know if they wanna cheat they will find a way regardless if there is website or anything Gooood Luck to alll o yeah one last thing MEN please and please once again your woman prolly moreeeee WILD then you think just try her Goood Luck to all Geek