well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f****d up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

any wife who thinks it may be a fraudulent charge or a mistake is a fool.... he's cheating, you better check him!

Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D