You deserve the house because you clean it?? Lol really??  First off, most of the problems can be found with the wives. Don't kid yourself, I know too well the games you gals play. Find a guy you think is worthy of you, play innocent and make him chase you. All the while still sleeping with your ex. Convince the future victim of undying love. Lol Then you make him misserable by continuously nagging and trying to control him, bleeding the life from him day in and day out. Not to mention all the talk with your friends and family about him being worthless or whatever. Yeah you clean the house because you clean it. Good luck with that. Lol   I've got a nest egg stashed away for when it comes time to go. She can have the house but paying for it is going to be a [***] lol. Guys make loans from your friends, get them notarized. My soon to be ex is responsible for 80,000 of "borrowed" money. Get her to get a prescription for a drug that can be used to treat depression. I'll be living my same life style and she'll trying to pay a 2200 a month house note. See ya!

Ok, here's the deal.  We are well into the information age and if you make a charge/purchase it is trackable and you are going to get caught everytime.  If you want to avoid this you really have 3 options.  Option 1, a favorite of some and the most honest but with many backlashes, divorce... Option 2, Lie, denie, and lie some more, never works...  Option 3, my favorite, open a bank account or credit card account in only your name and keep some $$ in it and go from there.  All banks and cc have the paperless option.  Only a fool would make purchases from a joint account or phone calls from a joint phone line.  Some people just like a lot of sex with different people and also like being married.  Its just the way it is.  If you are that kind of person, do yourself a favor, get a prepaid phone, have $$ that only you know about, and make sure you are being safe.  Pretty tough to explain an STD or love child to your spouse if no one is cheating...

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!  
Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

Actually, just go to the grocery store, but a disposable credit card with just as much as you need on it, use that, throw it out. Need a phone number, get a prepaid phone while you're at it. Who's gonna accuse you for cheating on them at the Safeway??

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

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