Found on a current American Rxpress bill:

09/30/2008  ADL MEDIA (416) 440-3175 DE
DIRECT MKTG MISC   149.00


When looking for a clue about this company I found the following info at http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-(416) 440-3175

Comments about (416) 440-3175 number:

jj - 15 Oct 2008
charge on cc says adl media who or what is this has ph. number of (416) 440-3175
 
MiMi - 6 hours 19 minutes ago
The credit card co. states this charge is from an Escort/Dating company.  I called the number and it is a woman on an answering machine asking you to leave a msg. if you have a question regarding billing.  My guess is that you will never get a call back - unless you are a male that made the charge!  Dirty little secrets...


Since I've called no escort service, I suspect this may be an ongoing scam.  Is it appearing on other credit cards also, or does this particular credit card (American Express) have a problem?

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

Decide if you really want to know the truth and then ask your husband if he knows what the charge is about.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

I actually want more sex from my hubby and he's on Ashley Madison too.  Only been married 2 years.  I'm good with oral.  Some men will never be happy.

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!