Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

Sad sign of the times... It saddens me to see that you are scoffing at wives whose husbands are unfaithful.  Really????  Most religions and philosophies do not endorse cheating on your spouse-- even if you have no belief in a God or any higher power...Ya know, I am speechless.

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Actually, just go to the grocery store, but a disposable credit card with just as much as you need on it, use that, throw it out. Need a phone number, get a prepaid phone while you're at it. Who's gonna accuse you for cheating on them at the Safeway??

To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

Wow, that would suck for the spouse to find "THAT" out....

yeeouch....