That was a close call. I almost bought credits there.. figured Id google the name they bill under to see if any nosey spouses have discovered it allready.. Thanks for saving me the trouble of digging my way outta that one!!Back to craigslist cheating for me!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

Way to help the bastards. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid a**. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing.

Just thought i'd let you all know!

Thanks.

I just found this on my Discover bill statement too. I have also found Aebn Inc, and Gamelink, and Cp2Pay.com.  These are all porn sites which I have found on my bank statements from the SOB husband. The best one was when he contacted escort sites (including Ashley Madison) that showed up on the  history on the computer. And yes, actual email communication. Ladies, check it out, alot. The emails too. You will be surprised what you will learn.

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much