I have been on there for several years. had several long term contacts.  Why did I go? Bored in bedroom. Married too young? not enough premarital  experiences? I don't know. I found it hot. I found in intoxicating that other women found me attractive. Would do things my wife wouldn't.  I was able to please them.  One was ready to let me be with her and another woman. unfortunately my wife found out about her. I ended affair. Mistress was spared any fallout.  Is something missing in my marriage. If there is its from my side. I don't want to leave. but I don't want to be limited to one woman. I maybe a [***]. Or scum. Just cant stop.

What an [***]**** u r

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of [***] up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

I just found this on MY bank statement..... NOT HAPPY.......

The kids know something is up.  Do they know this in exact detail, of course not, but they know when the fire has died and that the two of you are simply putting up with one another.  It shows, believe me it does.  Kids know more than you give them credit for.