The kids know something is up.  Do they know this in exact detail, of course not, but they know when the fire has died and that the two of you are simply putting up with one another.  It shows, believe me it does.  Kids know more than you give them credit for.

If you guys don't wanna get caught I found that using a pre loaded visa/mastercard or american express card works perfect for me. NO PAPER TRAIL hehehe you don't even have to use your real name when using it just put A gift card for you!!!!

Yep....just like others say.....ashleymadison.com  site for cheating spouses...as seen on Howard Stern, etc...so wanna get even?....Wink

Hi,I found two charges for ADL media which is getting linked to the Ashley Madison website.  What would the two charges for $80 be for???  It's a cheating website, not a hooker website right?Does anyone know what the charges would be for?

AshelyMadison now accepts PayPal.  If you want to hide this from you spouse just create a PayPal account. Transfer some money and pay electronicaly.  As long as you keep your PayPal account secret no one will know.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!  
Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D