Found on a current American Rxpress bill:09/30/2008 ?ADL MEDIA (416) 440-3175 DEDIRECT MKTG MISC   149.00 When looking for a clue about this company I found the following info at http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-(416) 440-3175Comments about (416) 440-3175 number:jj - 15 Oct 2008charge on cc says adl media who or what is this has ph. number of (416) 440-3175   MiMi - 6 hours 19 minutes agoThe credit card co. states this charge is from an Escort/Dating company.  I called the number and it is a woman on an answering machine asking you to leave a msg. if you have a question regarding billing.  My guess is that you will never get a call back - unless you are a male that made the charge!  Dirty little secrets...Since I've called no escort service, I suspect this may be an ongoing scam.  Is it appearing on other credit cards also, or does this particular credit card (American Express) have a problem?

Hey Shannon feel what you are saying my husband denied it as well ,but when you call the local chat line (which is what first media bills for) & play his add for him it will be a bit hard for him to say that is not him. Good Luck!

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  

Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

Wow, that would suck for the spouse to find "THAT" out....

yeeouch....

To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.