To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

Well, I just found the number on my man's bank statement too....wtf?

well you a touch delusional, all you women are just like adverts (false advertising) we both agree to this "marriage" or "relationship" but after you know you have us things go to the backside of f***ed up. It always starts with what we both want otherwise men would not agree to the marriage. then women change but men do not and women need to realize that us men are still very "cave man" and are still very in touch with our primal side of things, like having sex. it is not what we want it's more like what we actually NEED and that statement of "if we dont find it at home we will find it somewhere else" is way more true than you want to imaging.

That seems like a lot of work.  Maybe instead of spending all your time on hunting all this down, you should have spent it having sex with your husband, so he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL. ?She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

I had this charge show up too. I called the "real" ADL media it is not them. This looks like someone posing as ADL.