I just found PAYPAL *ADL MEDIA on our credit card bill for $268.00 - it was not me - wondering if it is my husband?

You deserve the house because you clean it?? Lol really??  First off, most of the problems can be found with the wives. Don't kid yourself, I know too well the games you gals play. Find a guy you think is worthy of you, play innocent and make him chase you. All the while still sleeping with your ex. Convince the future victim of undying love. Lol Then you make him misserable by continuously nagging and trying to control him, bleeding the life from him day in and day out. Not to mention all the talk with your friends and family about him being worthless or whatever. Yeah you clean the house because you clean it. Good luck with that. Lol   I've got a nest egg stashed away for when it comes time to go. She can have the house but paying for it is going to be a [***] lol. Guys make loans from your friends, get them notarized. My soon to be ex is responsible for 80,000 of "borrowed" money. Get her to get a prescription for a drug that can be used to treat depression. I'll be living my same life style and she'll trying to pay a 2200 a month house note. See ya!

What an [***] hole!!!

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much

if a dude said he would chop off his wifes pits he would get shot down so back it up sister, that kinda talk is just sick !!!

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing. Just thought i'd let you all know! Thanks.