Wow, that would suck for the spouse to find "THAT" out....

yeeouch....

So what are you paying for?  I thought the subscription is free???

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much

That was a close call. I almost bought credits there.. figured Id google the name they bill under to see if any nosey spouses have discovered it allready.. Thanks for saving me the trouble of digging my way outta that one!!

Back to craigslist cheating for me!!!!!!!!!!!

I believe that ADL Media now owns SexuallySocial, which could mean that your husband is cheating on you.

my spouse says that the reason a bride smiles as she walks down the aisle is that she won't have to perform oral or have sex when her husband wants it anymore ( which for me translates to sex about every 2 months and definitely no oral ever ).With this attitude is it any wonder that men seek fulfillment elsewhere.
              Guys / girls who are not fulfilled - i am sure will look at least whether they take the next step or not.There is a kick in looking at these sites - but the factor of men to women would be at least x 10 looking .I have never strayed but i do like looking and dreaming !

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