Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

Way to help the [***]. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid [***]. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

Hey ladies and others finding this on a joint CC statement ( I found it on his statement)-- call the CC and ask to dispute it. They will investigate it and hopefully in the case of AmerEX they will SEND you the proof!! He called Amex, he denied it. They froze the charge while investigating.  Well, Mr Cries and Lies "It's a mistake, not me, not me!" well AmEx trumped your cries and lies because I just received mail from Amex with four pages of proof from ADL Media, names, emails addys I didn't know about, messages, our address, his Ashley Madison login ID and PW and a PHOTO! (yeah, goin there next to print off some more!) Um, had enough of Mr. Cries and Lies this decade. I'm DONE!   Thought you others questioning cheating spouses would like to know :-D

Wow, that would suck for the spouse to find "THAT" out....

yeeouch....

Hell Yeah!  +1

If you guys don't wanna get caught I found that using a pre loaded visa/mastercard or american express card works perfect for me. NO PAPER TRAIL hehehe you don't even have to use your real name when using it just put A gift card for you!!!!