Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  

Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

so in the statement is it AMBD or AVD??

hello to everyone who reads this post if someone wants to cheat they will do it with or without that web site trust me a trip to Vegas for work for 5 days and i ended in my boss bedroom she is married with 3 kids and she told me all about the things she did before well heck i am single don't really care never getting married i guess and the past 3 years and half allll my se* partners are married women and i mean alll i am 27 works for intel and i am loving it when a husband doesn't give his wife what she needs or a wife doesn't give her man what he needs OF COURSE they gonna look somewhere for sex bunnies anyways just wanna let everyone know if they wanna cheat they will find a way regardless if there is website or anything Gooood Luck to alll o yeah one last thing MEN please and please once again your woman prolly moreeeee WILD then you think just try her Goood Luck to all Geek

Must be nice to have kids.  We have been trying for more than 10 years and over 12 IVF cycles including Donors and Surrogates. I stopped counting the costs more than 4 years ago when it reached a quarter million.  Dont look for any sympathy here. I am not asking for any.

What an a** hole!!!

Way to help the [***]. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid [***]. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.