I can use many angry words here to describe how I feel about some other comments that women and wives are to blame for affairs. A marriage works both ways, if a wife is not sleeping with her husband, thats because the husband is not desirable anymore. Yeah, guys when you let yourselves go we tend to tolerate it because of love I suppose but if you think we will tolerate you not acting like a gentleman and open doors for us and romance us, then we are not spreading our legs for your smelly icky nether parts.
This comment is only to "Double Life" being married and having a lot of sex is despicable. If you were my husband I would chop your d*ck off and feed it to you. You are tired of your spouse and don't want to work on it, you leave the relationship. For all you know they probably want the same thing just dont want to be the first to say anything. You men act as if we women actually care if you stay or go, if you want more than leave the keys and get out. Yes we damn well deserve the house, we're the ones who clean it and maintain it.
Side note, no one has ever been happy leaving an honest wife. They have always been dissapointed in the fling they thought was their soul mate, however you do the honest wife a great service when you get yourself out of the picture.

I just found PAYPAL *ADL MEDIA on our credit card bill for $268.00 - it was not me - wondering if it is my husband?

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.

Yes, this ADL Media INC is the company that shows up if you buy credits from Ashley Madison, an on-line site for people that are looking to cheat on spouses.  Good luck with that.

Way to help the bastards. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid a**. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

this appears to be a charge code for some kinda adult media, be it website,personal service or some kind of club or event. problem is i didnt order or buy anything like that. if anyone knows what can be done to dispute this charges let me know. but im almost sure thats what it means ADL MEDIA + ADULT MEDIA