That seems like a lot of work.  Maybe instead of spending all your time on hunting all this down, you should have spent it having sex with your husband, so he wouldn't need to look elsewhere.

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  

Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

I just found PAYPAL *ADL MEDIA on our credit card bill for $268.00 - it was not me - wondering if it is my husband?

I belive it could be an online dating service....
My roomate is on several sites, but hasn't figured out which one is using ADL media.

Sorry I banged your wife.  I met her on the site! lol

Honestly, I have met four married women on Ashley Madison.  I have two more contacting me.  There are as many bored housewives as there are men on that site. And one was on wit her hubby's permission and we teamed up and did her together later.

If its not your cup of tea just leave it alone, and be glad that your spouse is happy and getting that itch scratched, but loves you enough not to leave.

trying to figure out who called from this number