Sad sign of the times... It saddens me to see that you are scoffing at wives whose husbands are unfaithful.  Really????  Most religions and philosophies do not endorse cheating on your spouse-- even if you have no belief in a God or any higher power...Ya know, I am speechless.

I belive it could be an online dating service....
My roomate is on several sites, but hasn't figured out which one is using ADL media.

I have been on there for several years. had several long term contacts.  Why did I go? Bored in bedroom. Married too young? not enough premarital  experiences? I don't know. I found it hot. I found in intoxicating that other women found me attractive. Would do things my wife wouldn't.  I was able to please them.  One was ready to let me be with her and another woman. unfortunately my wife found out about her. I ended affair. Mistress was spared any fallout.  Is something missing in my marriage. If there is its from my side. I don't want to leave. but I don't want to be limited to one woman. I maybe a [***]. Or scum. Just cant stop.

That was a close call. I almost bought credits there.. figured Id google the name they bill under to see if any nosey spouses have discovered it allready.. Thanks for saving me the trouble of digging my way outta that one!!Back to craigslist cheating for me!!!!!!!!!!!

Found this number on my credit card statement. Who is it?

AshelyMadison now accepts PayPal.  If you want to hide this from you spouse just create a PayPal account. Transfer some money and pay electronicaly.  As long as you keep your PayPal account secret no one will know.