Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL. ?She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

if a dude said he would chop off his wifes pits he would get shot down so back it up sister, that kinda talk is just sick !!!

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing. Just thought i'd let you all know! Thanks.

Yep....just like others say.....ashleymadison.com  site for cheating spouses...as seen on Howard Stern, etc...so wanna get even?....Wink