To "Pissed Wife" ... the charges are not for hookers. They were for the ability to send a message to someone. Ashley Madison does not allow anyone to send a message unless they buy credits. They have sneaky ways of getting people to pay. The fact that you saw 2 charges of $80 probably means that he sent out a few messages, no one replied, and then he had to go and buy more credits in order to send more messages and try again.

this appears to be a charge code for some kinda adult media, be it website,personal service or some kind of club or event. problem is i didnt order or buy anything like that. if anyone knows what can be done to dispute this charges let me know. but im almost sure thats what it means ADL MEDIA + ADULT MEDIA

Way to help the bastards. The spouse will always find out. My husband had a separate credit card and it appeared on our online banking screen.  Stupid a**. I printed the statement and got the 800 number, the card number, and the zip code. Been separated for a year and can still listen to his charges to an escort service. Liars are always caught.

Actually, just go to the grocery store, but a disposable credit card with just as much as you need on it, use that, throw it out. Need a phone number, get a prepaid phone while you're at it. Who's gonna accuse you for cheating on them at the Safeway??

my spouse says that the reason a bride smiles as she walks down the aisle is that she won't have to perform oral or have sex when her husband wants it anymore ( which for me translates to sex about every 2 months and definitely no oral ever ).With this attitude is it any wonder that men seek fulfillment elsewhere.               Guys / girls who are not fulfilled - i am sure will look at least whether they take the next step or not.There is a kick in looking at these sites - but the factor of men to women would be at least x 10 looking .I have never strayed but i do like looking and dreaming !                                           All The Best

any wife who thinks it may be a fraudulent charge or a mistake is a fool.... he's cheating, you better check him!