Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

Found on a current American Rxpress bill:

09/30/2008  ADL MEDIA (416) 440-3175 DE
DIRECT MKTG MISC   149.00


When looking for a clue about this company I found the following info at http://800notes.com/Phone.aspx/1-(416) 440-3175

Comments about (416) 440-3175 number:

jj - 15 Oct 2008
charge on cc says adl media who or what is this has ph. number of (416) 440-3175
 
MiMi - 6 hours 19 minutes ago
The credit card co. states this charge is from an Escort/Dating company.  I called the number and it is a woman on an answering machine asking you to leave a msg. if you have a question regarding billing.  My guess is that you will never get a call back - unless you are a male that made the charge!  Dirty little secrets...


Since I've called no escort service, I suspect this may be an ongoing scam.  Is it appearing on other credit cards also, or does this particular credit card (American Express) have a problem?

Honestly,

I think people cheat for many reasons. I dont condone it, but I do believe if there is a cheating spouse as much as that hurts the one being cheated on I think the one who did the cheating hurts too!

Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

What an [***]**** u r

ADL Media Inc is the billing code for AshleyMadison.com, a website for married people wishing to have an affair.  The comany didn't call you, your spouse had to register for this service.