Pissed ladies, Stay out of your husbands email and web site history.  That is sick.  Treat the disease, don't focus on the symptoms.  You have to learn the tease to keep him on a leash.  Act mysterious and coy.  Hold back just a little bit.  Your guy needs a challenge.  Hold back that little corner of your mind for him to try and figure out what is going on in there.  Bring him to the edge, keep him happy, but not 100% satisfied. (one and the same)

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much

Hey, this adl media site is a website for purchasing online computer software. I know this for a fact because I just purchased some for my business. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about this whole dating site thing.

Just thought i'd let you all know!

Thanks.

any wife who thinks it may be a fraudulent charge or a mistake is a fool.... he's cheating, you better check him!

I just found this on my Discover bill statement too. I have also found Aebn Inc, and Gamelink, and Cp2Pay.com.  These are all porn sites which I have found on my bank statements from the SOB husband. The best one was when he contacted escort sites (including Ashley Madison) that showed up on the  history on the computer. And yes, actual email communication. Ladies, check it out, alot. The emails too. You will be surprised what you will learn.

my spouse says that the reason a bride smiles as she walks down the aisle is that she won't have to perform oral or have sex when her husband wants it anymore ( which for me translates to sex about every 2 months and definitely no oral ever ).With this attitude is it any wonder that men seek fulfillment elsewhere.
              Guys / girls who are not fulfilled - i am sure will look at least whether they take the next step or not.There is a kick in looking at these sites - but the factor of men to women would be at least x 10 looking .I have never strayed but i do like looking and dreaming !

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