Hey man, seriously these days and times anything can happen. So harness it and enjoy it. Confront her and tell her you know whats going on. Then say i want you satisfied and happy(it will get you lots) so when you play i wanna play too or at least watch cause you are so hot and I think you would be so sexy to watch.. She will either shut it down or give you fun you will never forget..

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much

I just found PAYPAL *ADL MEDIA on our credit card bill for $268.00 - it was not me - wondering if it is my husband?

That was a close call. I almost bought credits there.. figured Id google the name they bill under to see if any nosey spouses have discovered it allready.. Thanks for saving me the trouble of digging my way outta that one!!

Back to craigslist cheating for me!!!!!!!!!!!

hey wifesif ur not looking after him some other women will.i think my wife likes it bc she dont have to put out now.my advise.... start treating ur man the way he likes'stop using sex as a bargin chip.

I am never gonna use Electronic media for cheating again.  Just got busted...still waiting for the re-percussions.  The best affair I had was seeing some hot chick off the street...left a note on her car to e-mail me back...and had some rocking good times for about 2 months.  Did it at my house, her house, the bushes..it was awesome.

Screw this e-dating/cheating crap too risky...and you will always leave a trail..not matter how careful you are..soon you will get lazy and get busted.

My advice:  See a hot girl/guy on the street just smile..and see where it leads too.