Treat your wife like a Queen and you may get some. You men are so selfish! All about me and what I need. Wash a damn dish, bring flowers, spend quality time together, instead of looking else where. Men ruin their lives! Take the test 5lovelanguages.com and watch Fireproof!

Thank goodness for the internet! My wife kept dodging the issue when I tried to confront her about the $250 bill to ADL.  She told me it was a birthday present for me. I was shocked to learn it was for an affair website.  Curosity got the best of me so I signed on for a profile just to see if I could find her. When I did I was appaled by what I saw.  Now here I am angered and hurt and feel the love has been drained from our marriage. I don't know what to do at this point. We have kids and I would hate to put my kids through that. And because of that I think I'll remain a silient victim and let her have her stupid affiars.

1. set up a paypal account and deposit funds in there.or1. get a prepaid debit 'visa check' card.(tell your spouse it was a gift, if you must --- just don't tell her it was a gift to yourself for good sex.1a. Earn some extra cash... sell something on ebay, start a side business (easy enough to do w/as many affiliate programs there are.)2. Put the income onto the check card and EL...Media (looks like ADVERTISING in the sales ledger)3. You know you're business is working when you get free hookups & it pays for itself.Make more $$, quit your dayjob.cheers!

A very interesting read indeed and def agree sort of to answers to both sides - I am suffering the no sex trauma at the moment also - "WHY" because she can deprive me of that. Whether its change of life or she has no desire for me anymore, she may even have someone on the side who knows, but for a guy who does love his sex it is NOT good and certainly makes a male you consider all options when the darling wife not even give you the decency of discussing this issue, no reason just turn it off - I have recently been looking at the options of an escort or an affair. We are both in our late 40s - both look great for our age and have had a great life to date, we travel os extensively for holidays, beautiful home and cars, 3 great kids we have been very fortunate in life with running our own business, but i would give it all away to have the relationship back - with passion and affection. I have not had sex now for 6 months which is driving me crazy and i have been very patient and not pushed the issue to where it would make matters worse. Ladies that do deprive their husbands for sex or use it as a tool for what ever should seriously think about the possible consequences if they value their marraige because believe me when i say i have never ever contemplated cheating, i have always valued my fidelity in my marraige UNTIL NOW which is concerning me because this is not my style and i know im getting very close to doing what i the un thinkable . I can understand if the wife or partner are not well or having emotional melt down etc, but when there appears to be nothing physically or mentaly wrong is certainly asking for trouble.  Maybe i will start checking the CC statements maybe she got in before i did - to the ladies who have the shoe on the other foot well if you want to square up - Im sure i will be available real soon - take care and dont slap em about the head to much

well looks like its time for all them Ashley Maddison scum bags to pay for it. :D

If you guys don't wanna get caught I found that using a pre loaded visa/mastercard or american express card works perfect for me. NO PAPER TRAIL hehehe you don't even have to use your real name when using it just put A gift card for you!!!!